I actually wrote this back in January, I’m pretty sure. But I needed a reminder today.
There is a morning to the way you think. Even if it’s one that you’d rather not acknowledge for how exposed it looks at high noon. The world is pitiless: full of sun and harsh against your eyes.
But there is no purpose to your misery. Your misguided dislike of the universe in general seems justified at first, but then you remember that this is the universe where an old friend was stumbled into you on the train last night: literally falling into your subway car, fresh off the L. You never knew that he was so close to you. And his stumble will set off a whole new chain of events in your life. Then those events will, in turn, branch out and bring to you yet more and more beginnings.
This universe is the one where you found out that boy you’d written about for pages and pages actually knew your name, which is in itself an astonishing thing. And in this society you live in, no matter how bad it gets, you at least are allowed a few years to accumulate debt. To get your bearings and think. So use this time, and sit in heated rooms in the winter, and roam the streets every summer, and think about music and sound and other miracles of human consciousness. Do not be so preoccupied by living that you are unable to see life, for at any moment this could be taken from you, or the Milky Way itself could become lost and ourselves within it—just a speck in the great cosmic firmament. You, girl, live in an age that is in between that past greatness and whatever it is to come. There is no better time to be alive.